Saturday, August 29, 2009

- jie di lian? -

i suddenly had this topic in mind..Jie Di Lian 姐弟恋..which also refers to a guy liking an older aged girl compared to his age..when i turned back to some of my friends around me..it seems to have becomed common already..although back in my school days..my friends around me do not recommend nor encourage this fact..although there was an example back then whom was clara with another guy younger of her age..other than this couple..there were no others whom was into this kind of relationships..this was like 4-5 years back..but turning back the time till now which is the present..it seems to have been common-alized..hahas..what a word to use..but i couldn't think of any words at the moment..so far people around me whom are into these kind of relationships the largest age gap is 2 years only..meaning the girl is 2 years older than the guy but are still together and they're together for 2 years already..and another example is a guy liking the same girl for like 2 years already and still liking her even though the girl has a boyfriend and are together for around 3 years too..these examples around me made me think likewise of jie di lian's..it seems to me that they are more happy compared to ppl in normal relationships that quarrel much so often and of many times are not happy at all or talk about break ups so so often..these made me opened my mind and thinking of relationships..

For me..previously those whom asked me or those whom i liked previously were either the same age or 1-3 years older than me..i was only once in a relationship with a guy whom is the same age as me..but after months past..our thinking started to change and eventually the feeling died off..probably because of this i didn't want to enter another relationship from then as i feel if i do not understand the guy and vice versa..eventually this connection would die off too..but now as i start to grow older..i would want to refresh my thinking and start to accept entering into relationships..as i'm not young anymore..ok just one factor that people around me keep repeating hahas..and i would also want a partner whom understands me and will be by my side be it whatever problem i face..i wish one day what i always wished will come true..and to all my friends and loved ones too.. =)

beex never ending fairytales- 9:01 PM

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